Last week, when news of a homicide attack on a deployed group of Ohio Army National Guardsmen hit the airwaves, our household held its breath. A handful of men from my husband's unit had volunteered to deploy to Afghanistan and very well could have been among those killed or wounded. Even when we learned that the soldiers my husband personally knows were not among those involved, we watched news reports to see if there were anything we could do to help or if more news were forthcoming.
What I didn't realize until I read this amazing blog post on Afghan Blue was that the news footage I was watching (that appeared to be stock footage) was actual footage from the scene of the horrific incident. Realizing that I had unknowingly watched something I would never have sought out made me sick to my stomach. In reading Blue's blog post, I realized that several newspapers and other news sources had run much more vivid and graphic images than even I had seen.
I imagined the excuse or reasoning many people use when they seek out or view such imagery: "Well, it was horrible to see. Thank goodness I don't actually know them." or even worse, "How awful for their families. I'm certainly glad that wasn't someone I knew."
But, that's the thing...you DO know them. And you should be able to fathom how those images made their families feel. Because you know me. Or, you know my husband. And, but for the grace of God and troop rotation cycles, he could have been on that mission in Afghanistan and those images emblazoned across your TV or computer screen could have depicted him. Or his buddy.
So, you can't say you don't know.